1 step closer to single....now what?
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Posted:Jul 25, 2014 9:47 pm
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2014 3:42 pm
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Well, it's absolutely clear that there is no saving this relationship. Now all that is left is completing the process. Sad, really. I keep hearing from friends that things will be better for all involved the the process is finalized. I'll believe it when I see it.
I'd be curious to hear from some of you who have been through "the big D". How long did it take before you felt things were "better"? I know I want to date again. The word "girlfriend" certainly sounds odd at this age. Because I didn't have much time between my prior relationship and this one, I know I. Going to want to stay "foot loose and fiancé free" for some time. One thing I know for sure is that I've really missed the emotional/physical connection with a woman. To me, almost nothing is more soothing and satisfying than a good cuddle. Again, ALMOST nothing. Lol. I hear some people say "it's just sex". Yeah, I get it, but I've done the "just sex" thing before. I often felt empty after the boot-knockin when it was strictly a physical relationship. I wonder if that feeling will be the same all these years later.
I also hear some using the pool analogy. Some say you want to put a toe in just to check how it feels, whole others say just to hit the high dive and launch into an earth shattering cannonball. I'm sure there a happy medium there somewhere.
Well, it will still be a bit before I dip a toe or take the plunge. The future will be interesting for sure. Don't be a stranger. If you've read this far, drop me a line
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I'm back!
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Posted:Jun 23, 2014 10:58 am
Last Updated:May 16, 2024 11:23 am
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Well, it's been quite a long time since I've been on Email aHotSexual at GMail dot com SexParty or Porn. After a long, drawn out, loveless marriage, we have finally decided to make a break. Exactly how or when this will happen is still in the works, but at least now we have taken the first step. I knew this was coming for a long time, but it still isn't something I look forward to completing.
That being said, entering the dating world is going to be interesting. Because there are involved, I want to keep things fairly low key. My goal would be to find someone in a similar situation. Someone who isn't necessarily looking for a long term commitment, but rather an occasional clearing of the cobwebs. At my age, the term "girlfriend" seems out of place. I'd just like someone I can enjoy time with and take a roll on the sheets on occasion.
Does this ever work?
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Layin it all on the table
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Posted:Jun 29, 2008 7:06 pm
Last Updated:May 16, 2024 11:23 am
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If you take a few minutes to read my profile and my blog, you can see what is going on in my life and you'll get an idea of why i am here on Email aHotSexual at GMail dot com SexParty or Porn. to be sure, this isn't one of my more proud online ventures, but i feel like i have to do something to break this long dry spell.
well, here it goes...this is what i'm looking for...
like my previous blog says, i'm not looking to be a complete ass. i'm not a hit it and quit it kind of guy, but i also don't want a girlfriend. what would be ideal would be to find a woman in my age range that is maybe here for the summer or is maybe just looking for someone to enjoy an occasional few hours of quality time together. actually, being in my age range isn't that big of an issue, but i don't know that i'm all that interested in a woman in her early 20's, as fun as that may be. discression is of course crutial. cleanliness is a must. we can get dirty together, but i prefer somebody that takes care of their appearance. that's not to say i am looking for somebody with the perfect body. i certainly don't have the perfect physique, so it would be unreasonable for me to expect someone to be physically perfect. i just want somebody that is familiar with the use of soap, toothpaste and a hair brush. pretty simple!
i'm not one to sleep around, so i do have one thing to ask of anybody that is interested in becoming a partner. if my partner finds another more suitable companion, i just want to know so i can get out of the way...no questions asked.
i know this kind of relationship isn't for everybody. i did have a friend a while back that understood my needs and i understood hers. she found a person she wanted to establish a true relationship with, and i just stepped aside. i wish her much luck with her new man, just as i would with anybody that decides to contact me about this.
anyway, that's me and that's all. it will be interesting to see the replies to this blog.
take care everybody. be good and be safe.
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Rock...Me...Hard place
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Posted:Jun 25, 2007 8:03 pm
Last Updated:Jul 8, 2014 11:49 am
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I've got quite the conundrum going on here. I'm married and love my wife. At least I think I love her. But our relationship lacks passion and romance. I don't know what it is, but she's totally lost the ability to be romantic anymore. We used to hump like bunnies years ago. It's not that we are old and unable to knock boots anymore. It just seems that she's lost it. Well, to be honest, she lost it a number of years ago. Sad really. Like I said, I still love her, but at the same time I have my needs. We all need passion and affection in our lives. A little physical affection goes a long way towards keeping a smile on our faces and s spring in our step.
Here's where I find myself straddling the fence between the love of a wife and the desire to have that physical affection that no longer seems to be there. if i had any inkling that she would be willing to try it, i'd ask if she would be willing to let me take a "buddy" from time to time. i don't want a gf. i don't want a 3some. i just want to be able to see someone from time to time. you know, someone that would be willing to let me get it out of my system. i had someone like that a while back. she was super cool. totaly understanding of my situation. we agreed that if she found someone she wanted to commit too, that i would just step aside. i had no problem with that. i'm also not a pig. well, at least in my mind i'm not. i'm not the type to hit it and quit it, if you know what i mean. i don't just want someone to fuck. they have to be a good person. not like i want someone to go out to dinner with, but they have to be cool. good sense of humor. clean. polite. be able to carry on a conversation.
it's kind of wierd. i don't want meaningless sex, but i don't want a relationship either. i also understand that at first, somebody that might be willing to get involved in something like this, might not be able to continue the relationship after they have time to sit back and think about it. it's not a traditional arrangement, that's for sure.
anyway, have any of you thought of something like this? what are your thoughts? speak your mind. i know i've had a few wonderful women look at my profile recently. is this something you might consider? let's talk.
Guru
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Got curves?
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Posted:Feb 21, 2007 11:21 am
Last Updated:Jul 3, 2014 11:43 am
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What's with this latest trend of super skinny woman? Whatever happened to the days when a size 12 or 14 (Marilyn was a 14)was the perfect figure? Can somebody please bring back the curves? I love a girl with soft, sensuous curves and an ample busom. Unfortunately, you see too many woman with protruding hip bones and fake tits. Don't get me wrong, I probably wouldn't kick them out of the bed, but that's not near as enjoyable as a naturally curvacious body. I see some of you out there too. There's nothing sexier than a woman with all the curves in the right places that is comfortable with her body, and one that has recognized that there are men out there that like that. And kudos to the companies that make sexy lingerie for these women. I see one local woman has an Email aHotSexual at GMail dot com SexParty or Porn page with a pic of her in a sexy corset, wearing thigh highs and garters. Toooooooo hot! She's a wild thing for sure.
Anyway, that's my opinion. Your thoughts?
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Traveling
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Posted:Jan 27, 2007 2:00 pm
Last Updated:Jul 3, 2014 11:45 am
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I'm heading to Anchorage for a short trip here soon. I've never been up there before, so if any of you have any suggestions, feel free to shout them out. Also, if any of the lovely ladies that read this are interested in joining me for a nice dinner, feel free to give me a shout. I hate dining alone.
Also, of course every man that goes to Anchorage has to make the pilgramage to the Bush Co., so I'm going to give it a shot. What's the place like anyway? If it's a dive, i'd rather not go.
i can also be contacted by sending mail to this handle on that service that has a y and a hoo. i'm on there more often.
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Yes....there is a God!
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Posted:Apr 18, 2006 7:07 pm
Last Updated:Oct 28, 2014 9:38 am
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After extensive praying, my prayers have finally been answered. Yes, I had my first 3some! Hooray for me! I kick ass! I rule!
I lady friend from out of town (call her S) came down for a visit, and another lady friend of mine (call her T) agreed to party with us.
I picked up the visitor from the airport and drove her to my lady friends place to introduce the two of them. while they exchanged chit chat, i sat there with this "holy shit! is this really happening" look on my face. Then it got even better....they started breaking out toys and discussing the pros and cons of each one. Dildos, vibrators, benwa balls, anal plugs, eggs...the list goes on and on. unfortunately i had to leave that night and couldn't partake of any of the goodies, but i knew what was ahead of me the following day.
i showed up the next morning and T answers the door wrapped in a towel and runs back to her bedroom. I walk in and find T and S naked in bed together, and there was a special scent in the air. I couldn't get out of my clothes fast enough. i hoped between the two of them and went to give S a kiss. I could taste T on her tongue...yumm!
Without turning this into a really long detailed story, I'll finish it by saying I had the most fun in that bed that a man could possibly have....I think. Hell, I still can't get my toes to uncurl!
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Hello 2006
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Posted:Jan 4, 2006 6:10 pm
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2007 7:42 pm
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I've been laying kinda low, but I'm still around. If you read my blog, drop me a line. I respond to all emails, so don't be shy.
I hope everybody had a great run of the holiday season, and has recovered from the New Year parties.
Guru....out!
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got some!
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Posted:Sep 9, 2005 7:01 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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well, that was much needed and greatly deserved. i found a new friend that invited me over for an exchange of DNA. If any of you ever get the chance to use a flogger, i highly recommend one! damn, those things are loud as hell, but apparently they don't hurt all that much.
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Just to get started
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Posted:Sep 1, 2005 3:07 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Well, we used to have sex like bunnies......
more to follow
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